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Tag Archives: Relationships

Becoming invincible in work, love and life

Recently I was watched a kung fu flick entitled “Born Invincible.” This great Hong Kong classic opens with a Tai Chi master practicing his daily rituals. The narrator announces that through his extensive training, he has become an “invincible” fighter. The film provides detailed steps and practices on how this fighter became invincible and maintains […]

God, can I have a…?

A man floating stranded in the middle of the ocean looks to the sky and asks, “God, can I have a boat?” Exhausted, the man falls asleep. When he awakens there is an overturned boat floating next to him. He shouts, “Thank you God!”

Are you microwaving your life?

Get Rich Quick! Get Slim Fast! Find Love Now! It seems as though patience, attention to detail and dedication to excellence have become dead virtues in today’s society. We want it all; pre-packaged and ready now. Is this microwave mentality creating the same outcome as microwaved food… appetizing superficially but unappealing at its core?

Sometimes lack of communication is key

Communication is key. We have all heard it before, but what does that really mean? Nothing. The cliché is incomplete and somewhat dangerous. Effective communication is much more important than just communicating. People communicate angrily, annoyingly and without considering their audience all too often. When expressing ourselves, especially in public, we need to remember that […]

The Perfect Woman

Understands my motives, so she can forgive my actions Is dependent on me for all of her shortcomings and allows me to be dependent on her for all of mine Is as eager to hear about my day as she is to tell me about hers

Is internet dating more effective?

You’re in a club/ lounge/ bookstore/ park (or any place where people meet other people) and see you an attractive person.  Do you go over and speak? Do you wait for eye contact, assess the interest level and then speak? What if this person doesn’t want to be bothered? Are you going to make a […]